Our Journey Through The Spectrum

We have started ABA (Applied Behavioral Analysis). At first, I have to say that I was leery of this therapy. From what I heard, read and viewed on the internet, it seemed to be very rigid and robotic. Though MANY discussion with my case worker and the therapists, we have come up with a team that has modified the ABA therapy to be less intense. When he can tolerate more, they will attempt to get more, but if not, they don't push him to hysteria.

Since starting ABA, Andrew has had a verbal breakthrough. He can speak, and tell me in short statements what it is he wants, what he sees. Its really awesome (one of his new words) to hear his voice. There have been vast improvements in his social behaviors. He cuddles up to a few of the therapists, and has even walked over to kiss one on the cheek. He's letting down his guard and letting people in.

Of course it hasn't all been wine and roses. He still has difficulty with Physical therapy and a specific new therapists. We have wrinkles to iron out but I feel very hopeful where as before I worried that my son would be trapped in his own little world indefinitely.

We are now discussing school. Its a scary thought. He is only 2 1/2. Part of me wants to keep my baby home. The other part thinks that the socialization he will receive there would be invaluable. Its a bit of a struggle to make sure that my MOMMY side, doesn't thwart his progress.